Lavender
Welcome To Lavender
Lavender Is Here To Help You Explore The World Of ANR.
See Our Educational Resources.
Browse Free Personals or Contact Lavender Members.
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The Rest Of The Site Is Working, Check It Out!
2/28 Updates Include New Member Profiles Up
Maps Being Redone
App In The Works
New Discord Group Up!
Plus Lots More!
What Is ANR?
ANR Is the acronym for Adult Nursing Relationships.
Also often referred to as ABF, Adult Breast Feeding, it's the same thing. Some people would say it is a lifestyle, others believe ANR/ABF is a fetish or kink. There is no right or wrong way to view it, whatever is most comfortable for you is ok.
Lavender is here to bring together like minded people with ANR as a common interest. Most people who use this site or the Lavender Discord are single and looking for partners. Some have found partners, some enjoying staying connected in the online community even when they are not looking to date.
What makes Lavender different from other ANR sites?
This site has butterflies that flap and flutter, and a humming bird too. Other sites don't have that. Lavender is run by a woman who has been part of the ANR communities for over 8 years now, so the site and groups are extra considerate to women and their specific needs and challenges when dating in the ANR world. This site does not allow any/all users to join. We have a strict 21 and over policy and anyone who is not nice to others is removed. Another huge difference is there is absolutely NO Soliciting allowed on anything associated with Lavender. No "milk maids", no milk for sale, nothing sketchy.
The majority of Lavender members view ANR as a special, romantic bond.
What happens in an Adult Nursing Relationship is up to the individuals involved. Lactation is an option! Lactation can happen for many women, even if they have not had children or ever been pregnant. It does require enormous amounts of time, effort, dedication plus so much more. Lactation is a personal choice that is best left up to the ladies to decide if it is right for them. Without lactation, you can still have an ANR relationship. That is often referred to as "dry", where lactation is called "wet" for obvious reasons! Our Educational Section will be regularly updated with more information and tips for supportive partners, etc. Thank you for being part of the LavenderANR community, and as always, if you have any questions or concerns, we have so many people happy to help. Contact Candy, the site admin or ask a question in the Discord and someone will respond quickly.
Lavender Members Get A Custom Made Profile
The Free Personal Ads are great if you want to just dip your toes into the ANR world and see who is out there, provide or read the most basic information with an optional small picture attached.
More detailed Free Ads are available as well.
If you are serious about finding an ANR Partner and you would like to read more info about others or share more than just the basics about you and what you are seeking, you get a full customized profile page dedicated just to you with a Lavender Membership. You will have access to view and message Members who are putting effort and time into finding a great potential match.
View Example Profiles: Candy or ExampleMan
The Blog is a brand new page which does not currently have much on it, it's being worked on and will only be available to Members. New features are always released to Members first and feedback is appreciated! Use the chat feature in the bottom corner to submit questions or suggestions to Candy.
Memberships are easy to cancel at any time. If not cancelled, they will auto-renew. Any concerns, just ask!
Your Membership Helps Support This Growing ANR Community! Thank You!
